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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 28 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

At the risk of sounding edgy: Sex.

I live in the US. Sex, even just plain boring vanilla sex, is such a taboo topic. Everyone's uncomfortable about it, and that sucks. I think it's interesting, and fun, and there's so many things to talk about from actual activities to social constructs and more.

Whenever it comes up, I nerd out the same way I would when talking about a game I am currently obsessing over.

[–] gazter@aussie.zone 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] RIP_Cheems@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I have been summoned.

[–] Siethron@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Same! I have bad ADHD and my hyperfixations are often sex related.

[–] BigPapaE@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sex? Is that some type of cake?

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Cake is involved is you subscribe to the slang term referring to butts. Love eating cake. Especially if it's frosted. 😋

[–] Donnywholovedbowling@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Who would frost a cake with their butt??

[–] KingJalopy@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] KingJalopy@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The hell you eating turning your fetishes White??

[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] KingJalopy@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago

Eewww gross wtf is wrong with you??