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Any lurkers here still mostly lurking? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 year ago by praxician@sh.itjust.works to c/casualconversation@lemmy.world

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It's so weird how Lemmy feels like old reddit and that was when I was more active but as reddit grew I began to lurk more except in four different communities. It's still hard to not lurk here. I frequently will type a comment or make a post and delete it, haha. Anybody else experiencing this?

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 6 points 1 year ago (6 children)

I never understood lurking. How can you just sit back and observe without ever engaging? Do you have no thoughts? Are you embarrassed? Lazy? We will never know because once the lurkers answer, they are no longer lurking. 😌

[–] androidbear04@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Im often socially awkward around people I don't know well, and I have had many failed attempts to get past it. After a while I usually participate more.

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