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My sister is 23 and still dresses up and goes out knocking doors for candy... and I find it weird but I let her do her. It got me thinking, at what age do you think someone should stop Trick r Treating at? Just curious.

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[–] shiveyarbles@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

I allow it if it's a parent or sibling accompanying a child. Or if they have an amazing costume. If it's a grown ass man wearing a trash bag or a $3 mask not so much.

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 4 points 1 year ago

When I took the kids trick or treating there was one house with a fire pit that was offering candy, Pokemon cards or beer depending on the age and preference of the trick or treater

[–] ieightpi@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

Hmm I guess in my mind it's when you have a job that pays you well enough to have fun money and buy your own candy.

So age isn't even a factor.

You are asking this on Lemmy? Many of us go to conventions just hoping to see a glimpse of a 23yr old in a costume.

[–] Luvon@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

If you still β€œlet” them apparently they are young enough

[–] rhythmisaprancer@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm fairly old and don't have kids and have never lived anywhere (as an adult) that had trick or treating. Based on my childhood memories of participating, I think having more older kids and young adults as, essentially, guardians, would be great. The parent to kids ratio was not great 30+ years ago. Just don't send out 23 year old creepers.

[–] weariedfae@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

No age limit! I will give ANYONE candy, I don't even care if you're wearing a costume- but I really need you to say trick or treat. Opening my door and everyone just standing there silently is painful.

[–] CaptainBasculin@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

If you're looking out for your kid/brother for safety, no limits. Otherwise, 16.

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Anyone of any age can dress up and not have it be weird... but trick-'r-treating? Anything over 12 is just fucking weird to me. I'm instantly sus of any adult doing it (unless they have a kid with them).

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