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[–] LlamaSutra@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

…for now.

Once you get critical mass it’s a race to the dumbest post.

[–] catboss@feddit.de 7 points 1 year ago

I am trying to get there, but so far I don't seem to be dumb enough. Please kick me when I make it.

[–] manitcor@lemmy.intai.tech 4 points 1 year ago

this is why small instances ppl

[–] celerate@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm sorry, I'll try to be more violent.

[–] croobat@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

I beg to differ, but if you wish so I may try to throw you that chair, sir.

[–] nutomic@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

This is the spirit!

[–] Windshear@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It's what happens with a small community. Interaction and discussion VS lowest common denominator humour for mass votes.

We all want Lemmy to succeed, but that only means that it'll turn back into reddit. It's the natural cycle of social media.

[–] possiblylinux127@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

Possibly but at least Lemmy is federated.

[–] oh_so_hazey@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Come a day, we'll all end up back on Fark and the cycle will repeat itself.

I told my gf, who I met on Reddit, about migrating from Fark to Reddit, and I'm trying to get her to join us here... but now she went and is exploring Fark, which is somehow still around, and I'm like you're doing it wrong!

I never knew what asinine meant until I used fark... It was educational in many ways, for sure.

I dunno, I think there's still some rose colored glasses going on

[–] bruzie 1 points 1 year ago

I was seriously considering going back to Slashdot.

[–] catboss@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

Thanks for the gold kind stranger?

[–] Kempeth@feddit.de 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

As long as you don't go into any post regarding the Ukraine war...

[–] cryptosporidium140@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

This is actually my second time on Lemmy, I tried it like 6 months ago and it was sooo different I couldn't handle all the tankposts

[–] MoreIronOre@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I've read the term 'tankie' more in one week on Lemmy than in the rest of my life combined.

It seems to be getting better though, lemmygrad was the largest instance of Lemmy for a long time and I couldn't even get a word in regarding Ukraine without all 10 users downvoting me lol

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Absolutely not. But I must say that I don't miss the toxicity at all. Being on the (liberal?) Fediverse has done wonders for my mental health. There's little tolerance for bullshittery and that helps foster a stronger sense of real community for a greater cause in my mind.

[–] name_NULL111653@pawb.social 2 points 1 year ago

I don't think it's even necessarily all the same political alignment, so much as it is that we're all united against Reddit and this corporate tomfoolery right now. It won't last forever, but in being united for a common cause, we've sort of achieved world peace lol. I'm a libertarian. I've seen us, republicans, democrats, liberals, conservatives, socialists, and everything in between uniting to discuss technology, bash Reddit, and work to build back our global communication forums. This is the progress in humanity that the internet's creators envisioned. This is unity and peace. It won't last forever, but if we can at least continue to respect each other (while holding different opinions), unite against those who show no respect or dignity, and continue to rebuild together, we have in my opinion bettered humanity for years, hopefully generations to come. Even expecting that this platform won't last forever - none ever will - we have learned through this to not take our open forum and free discussion for granted.

[–] catboss@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

Also there is (as of now) still far less shitposts and low effort commentary. I definitely won't miss the endless circlejerking either.

[–] Mir@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago

Yeah, for now...

[–] hydra@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Reddit has excessive bureaucracy and modbots who shadowban you for reasons as stupid as posting in a certain sub once despite never participating in the sub you got banned from.

[–] Chainweasel@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

So far the people who were most likely to jump ship on reddit were those who were the most fed up with what reddit has become lately.
I just had my 10th cakeday on reddit about a month ago and I've seen a steep decline in quality for both posts and interactions for the last 4-5 years, with it accelerating in the last year or so. Those that never tried old reddit on desktop or a 3rd party app see no reason to jump ship for another platform, and a large portion of the rude commenters and trolls showed up after the new layout was default and reddit had their own official app in the app stores.
Reddit just filtered out most of the people that made the site what it was in the first place. If it was turning into a shithole before all the people that actually care about the site left, just imagine what it will be like in the coming weeks now that we're gone.

[–] hydra@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

it's going to rapidly become a poorly moderated dumpster and people will eventually stop visiting until it becomes a zombie forum

[–] oh_so_hazey@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If it was turning into a shithole before all the people that actually care about the site left, just imagine what it will be like in the coming weeks now that we’re gone.

i don't know why this made me lol but it did

[–] SOS@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago

we need to introduce lemmy to the power of extreme violence

[–] Micfoo@aussie.zone 3 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Give it time, we're all new to the party.

Once we're all comfortable we can argue like we used to.

[–] Grander@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Hey fuck you man! I'm comfortable!

[–] Flukemaster@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

You can't tell me what to do! I wanna argue now

[–] aka_oscar@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

For now dun dun duun

[–] tracyspcy@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

heh that’s a good one

[–] A_Toasty_Strudel@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Yeah, people be chillin'.

[–] gaytswiftfan@lemmy.ml -2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

so far I've experienced a ton of whataboutism and really sus views/devils advocate type shit on here (lemme.ml) that makes me not want to browse. is there a better alternative that's not saying "why can't we all just have our own opinion ❤️🌈" on shit like genocide and anti LGBT culture

[–] golden_zealot@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

There are other lemmy instances which might work better for you than lemmy.ml in that case.

I believe the beehaw.org instance might fit that description, would recommend checking them out.

[–] BetaAssimilation@beehaw.org 4 points 1 year ago

Beehaw has a strict no hate speech policy and the mods aren’t afraid to put their foot down when people are sort of toeing the line about being a terrible person. That’s my instance and I’m very proud of it and it’s mod team. Sounds like it would be a good fit for you, too. Also, even if you don’t get an account there, you may be happy hanging out on the communities they host. Here’s a link to the mods describing their philosophy. https://beehaw.org/post/107014

[–] manitcor@lemmy.intai.tech 1 points 1 year ago

so many more instances, back when these were ISPs people would change to save a dollar, now that its free social media people are trapped?