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There is a huge emphasis I see on just growing community size and creating an alternative to reddit.

Back in the day we used to hang out in irc chats with 5-10 active users or forums with few thousand users max. I made friends there I visted across countries. Years after Id log in and people would ask how you've been.

I had a reddit account for over 10 years and I dont think a single person would recognize my username. Its always felt like people aren't talking to you but trying to appeal to the whole audience for points. Reddit exploits our psychology for attention but nothing humane is gained there. The super massive "community" ends up as a void where 99% of posts go completely unseen and any discussions suffer heavily from mod mentalities.

If this a place where even just ten people call home but feel good doing so, that is more good than a million being miserable. Maybe the best alternative is not to be reddit altogether.

Besides, good things have a natural tendency to spread, we don't need to focus on it.

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[โ€“] tallwookie@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

yeah, looking back at it now that you mention it, the only names I really recognized in reddit were the famous/infamous ones, or the ones that were obnoxious enough on the subs I subscribed to. in reddit, over the 15 years I used it, I created a new profile every year or two - had to, I kept getting banned from top-level subs. a profile name generally meant nothing inasmuch as it was required to use the platform...

[โ€“] Da_Boom@iusearchlinux.fyi 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

/U/vargas /U/rogersimon10 /U/shittymorph and their stories shall be handed down long after Reddit kicks the bucket for good.

Edit: can't forget /u/poem_for_your_sprog Was always a joy seeing him pop up.

[โ€“] LostCause@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 year ago

From my POV all we need to do is post and comment and create good communities. The people will come naturally if we do that.

[โ€“] Deadeyegai@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Yes i was amongst the irc chat netizens from back then and I like the retro style feel now!

[โ€“] azura@fedia.io 4 points 1 year ago

Someone posted a link a while ago to an article called killing community. I believe it speaks what I've been thinking for a while. I've quit so many social media over such a long time but I'm also part of a small community of friends. We Have our own little corner of the internet with file sharing and things like password manager and chat server and so on. We've been going strong for 15 years and going. Growth at all costs destroys communities.

[โ€“] rand__althor@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I miss the days of messageboards and IRC rooms. Back in the day, Nintendo had a messageboard (the Hyrule Town Square and then the NSider Forums) and I was somewhat active on both of those. I even ran my own messageboard and made some good friends I still talk to to this day on another forum. There was an IRC room I'd hang out in a decade ago before they mostly all moved over to Discord.

[โ€“] Smokeless7048@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

A man who trusts everyone is a fool, and a man who trusts no one is a fool. We are all fools, if we live long enough. - Lewis Therin

[โ€“] big_slap@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

yup, I agree. I forgot how much better smaller communities are now that I haven't used reddit in about a week. much less garbage on my feed that will eventually start to grow

[โ€“] mo_lave@reddthat.com 1 points 1 year ago

After a certain point, change for the sake of change is undesirable.

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