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The transphobia stops now (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/196@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

This community is housed on an instance run by two trans women, focused on the needs of the queer and gender diverse community.

We allowed 196 here because we were promised the community is queer and trans inclusive.

If you're here it's because you're aggressively supportive of trans folk. Not middle of the ground, not "just asking questions".

If your response to that is, "yes, but..." then this isn't the instance for you, and by extension, this isn't the community for you.

tl;dr - Unambiguous support and inclusion, or fuck off somewhere else.

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Edit - I changed the phrase "aggressive support to "unambiguous support", as there was some confusion over the intent behind my previous phrasing.

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[–] cmat273@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 year ago

Hi! Trans person here. Your heart is in the right place, but this post is poorly written. You haven't even given examples of how this is currently/could be applied. Some people are just that uneducated about trans people. If they're leading questions that invalidate us, sure. But otherwise what's the harm? For 196 there's no reason to ask about that stuff but the whole instance?? Your call in the end but I can think of a few ways this could go bad just from prior experience in other communities.

[–] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 15 points 1 year ago

Not on your instance but it's so good to see unequivocal inclusion and support for the trans community. There should be no room for bigotry of any kind.

[–] Abrslam@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 year ago
[–] Sharkwellington@lemmy.one 14 points 1 year ago

But muh discussion with both sides! 🤨🤔 That's not very tolerant of you, guess we know whose the real baguette now. 😤

[–] vinceman@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 year ago

Genuinely thank you. This community just existing as it does has already helped me a fucking weird amount.

[–] Goodtoknow@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 year ago

Full support here 🏳️‍⚧️

You tell em Ada!

[–] illumrial@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

Trans rights!

[–] CurlyWurlies4All@prxs.site 14 points 1 year ago

Fuck yeah 🏳️‍⚧️

[–] Milk_SDF_Possum@lemmy.sdf.org 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Basically, if you're not in their bubble of bullies they'll bully you out of the instance and you don't even need to be offensive for that.

[–] Sekoia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 year ago

^ does not have context, doesn't care, only wants to be mad

Congrats.

(If you do have context, that's even worse lmao a good amount of the comments were pretty clear-cut)

[–] RoyaltyInTraining@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

I used to be on the original 196 two years ago, cause it really was 99% supportive. But it has simply devolved into fetishization over time.

[–] Kes@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 year ago

Be friend of Blåhaj

[–] survive@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Yes, but….I don’t even know what 196 is. It shows up on my feed and is sometimes funny. I’m just clueless, not a bigot.

[–] sapient_cogbag@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

196 is a random content community with the simple rule of "post before you leave", so its filled with memes ^.^

It's also a very trans friendly place. But there was a thread recently with a bunch of "just asking questions", and "trans people are just oversensitive", and "I'm not a bigot, but most trans woman have a chip on their shoulder so I am no longer friends with them" kinda stuff, on a post a (trans) mod made complaining about people reporting a pretty questionable comment.

Even if people disagreed over the original comment, the thread about it ended up being transphobic as fuck.

So presumably the admins of lemmy.blahaj.zone (a trans-run instance, who host this, main, c/196 community, on the promise it would be very trans supportive) noticed the lack of moderation of that transphobic thread and are doing something about it ^.^

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[–] glizzyguzzler@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago

I’ll aggressively guzzle to that

Trans rights!

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (8 children)

I only saw this post because its on all

Maybe you dont want to be on all if this is your stance

Edit. The tone above is not hostile or pithy. I thought there was a dont show this community on all option. I have been informed that it isnt a toggle or opt out feature.

I apologize for any confusion my comment caused.

[–] regular_human@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

Why are you here?

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