mathias_freire

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[–] mathias_freire@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yes, we can continue to discuss about accessibility of abortion tools but that is not my point. Couples or individuals may still decide to keep the baby after pregnancy happened, even though they did not plan for it or they don't have enough money to raise a kid. They just have sex and baby comes a surprise. This happens a lot more than you could imagine.

[–] mathias_freire@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I don't think the main point of this discussion is how to define "proper healthcare". Humans do not always think "let's have a baby and grow our family". No, they mostly just have sex and keep the baby in case of pregnancy, sometimes involuntarily.

[–] mathias_freire@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

I didn't say there is not proper healthcare. I said couples might not be able to access it. Either it's banned or it's expensive. Also it's not about abortion though. Couples might have just wanted to have sex but might have kept the baby, doesn't matter. It's not always "let's have a baby".

[–] mathias_freire@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

No, I am not. I don't even belong to any Western country.

[–] mathias_freire@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago

And there are who intentionally avoid but still ending up having and there are who intentionally planning to have but cannot.

[–] mathias_freire@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

Have you heard it's not always the case? Single moms who got dumped after pregnancy, inaccessibility of abortions or protections, dumb kids got caught in the heat of moment and skip protections etc? Do you think every birth is planned by the couple?

[–] mathias_freire@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 weeks ago (11 children)

Have you ever heard of any protection/contraception with 100% efficiency?

[–] mathias_freire@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 weeks ago (15 children)

The idea wasn't to bring you to life. You are just a byproduct of the process of having sex.

[–] mathias_freire@lemmy.zip 5 points 3 weeks ago

Not just her, but also Nietzsche

[–] mathias_freire@lemmy.zip 41 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

The things that don't kill you, do not always make you stronger, but leave you wounded forever.