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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/RtomNZ on 2024-09-20 03:38:44+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/Usual-Tiger-983 on 2024-09-20 01:40:23+00:00.

So, I recently started a new job and one of my co-workers has the worst breath I have ever experienced. I’m not talking like someone who has just had onions for lunch or a bit of coffee breath, I’m talking a stench that smells between metallic and something died in their mouth.

It might sound trivial, but it actually is affecting me at work. It’s a professional, office job. I have had days where they sit next to me and I had to make an excuse to move to another desk. The other day I went to a seminar and they sat next to me and I could smell it so strongly I felt physically ill and had to get up. At times when I couldn’t escape, including in meetings, I haven’t been able to focus on my work.

Now, if this were someone I’d known longer and knew how they would react I would just pull them aside and let them know. I understand it can have a medical background so I don’t want to pry but at least if they’re not aware they could get checked up or get their mouth cleaned up.

But given I’m new to the workplace I’m wondering what I should do. Is this something to ask HR about? Or my manager ? If I raise it could there be repercussions against me?

I haven’t discussed with any other co-workers because I don’t want to start gossip.

I feel bad for them. I also feel like it’s not fair to the team or to the brand (not a great look when speaking to clients!). Surely they would want to know so they could do something about it?

For the record I’ve worked in multiple offices, over 10 years, and this is the first time I’ve ever even thought of going to HR.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/computer_d on 2024-09-20 01:14:03+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/mendopnhc on 2024-09-20 00:44:23+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/snowsjohn on 2024-09-20 00:15:38+00:00.

"If you look on their patch they have what's called the 'one percenter' and you look for those ones like Hell's Angels and others that have that have those one percent on there. What that means is they're telling people they're going to be number one gang in the country, they're going to go to war against other gangs, they're going to operate outside of New Zealand society in essence." link

"One percenter", You keep using that word, I do not think it means what you think it means.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/uglymutilatedpenis on 2024-09-20 00:03:03+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/Nagol1996 on 2024-09-19 23:49:46+00:00.

Hey everyone

It's been two years and two months since I gave up alcohol after a five year battle with alcoholism. I thought that by now, I'd be more comfortable in my own skin and that life would be better, but I'm still struggling immensely.

I'll break down my struggles the best I can. First, I currently have a few criminal convictions to my name, and I'm struggling with the fact that for the next five years (after which the Clean Slate Act kicks in and my convictions are sealed), no one will hire me. I'm currently a dairy farmer and it's my dream to work for Halter, but it's unlikely that they'll hire me until my criminal record is sealed. Although I don't hate my job as a dairy farmer, I know I don't want to do it for the next five years because of the detrimental affect that it has on my social life and the time that I have to pursue hobbies. Because of my convictions, I'm too scared to even express my interest to potential employers and this has resulted in me feeling rather stuck.

Secondly, I'm really struggling with the dating scene. I seem to have no problem attracting women, but nothing ever sticks. I try my best to be a kind, loving, caring and loyal man and I actively work on myself. But still, no success. I'm almost 30, and I don't want to be alone forever. The constant rejection is really starting to take a mental and emotional toll, and I've bowed out of dating as a result.

Third, I really struggle with my self worth. Not a day goes by where I don't beat myself up over my past - the people that I hurt and the extent to which I fucked up my life. Despite the fact that I've made positive change in my life, I really don't believe that I'm worthy of love, success, and happiness. My past still follows me, and it's a bitter reality.

Fourth, I really struggle to accept who I am. I have Asperger's, ADHD, Tourettes Syndrome, a history of depression, and obviously addiction issues. I feel so different to everyone else, and I'm constantly scared that no one will ever like or accept me for who I am. As such, I don't have any friends and I struggle to put myself into social situations.

All of this is really taking it's toll. As such, I don't feel comfortable in my own skin and I'm finding life to be mundane and an immense struggle.

I don't really know what I'm trying to achieve by writing this post. Perhaps I'm looking for advice on how best to keep moving forward, or perhaps I'm just looking for reassurance that life will get better if I keep doing the right things. At this point, I'll take any words of wisdom.

P.S. I'm not looking for pity. I'm well aware that my I fucked my own life, and I only blame myself. In saying this, please be nice.

Thanks

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/mendopnhc on 2024-09-19 23:04:41+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/ViolatingBadgers on 2024-09-19 22:25:20+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/Elysium_nz on 2024-09-19 20:21:22+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/MedicMoth on 2024-09-19 20:16:37+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/discordant_harmonies on 2024-09-19 20:57:43+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/MedicMoth on 2024-09-19 20:17:35+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/catwoman007 on 2024-09-19 09:47:16+00:00.

Public sector. Last month, we were essentially told to start looking for a job with a restructure on the horizon; and 4 people from my team will be affected. I started applying for jobs immediately, slightly panicking as the job market is not so great. Here’s my timeline: 30 Aug: Applied for a relevant role 16 Sept: Offer rolled out I’m a bit stunned with the quick and efficient process. Maybe I just got lucky as the job was quite relevant and I applied in time. But atleast it gives hope that it is possible. There are some things that helped me, and I’m listing down some ‘tricks’ I use for my job search.

1. I apply as soon as I see the job posted. The faster, the better, as many roles start calling candidates as they apply, and if you apply a bit later, a candidates might have already been selected. I’ve applied for jobs as soon as 2 hours of it being posted. I have set up job alerts for organisations where I’d like to work.
2. Sometimes, there’s a person mentioned at the end of a job advertisement with an email to reach out if you want to discuss the role. If I like the role very much, I connect with them on LinkedIn and introduce myself. Many times, it has got me interviews.
3. If you’ve applied for too many jobs and don’t want to be caught off guard when a recruiter calls you, let it go to voicemail. Check the voicemail, check the job they are calling about, and then call them back so you know exactly what to say. I always prepare myself well for that first call so I can present myself well.
4. If your LinkedIn profile is impressive with a strong network and some references, recruiters and hiring managers accept your connection request and are friendlier to you. Brush up that LinkedIn profile.
5. This one goes without saying: make your CV stand out. Mine has some colour in it, I designed it myself on Canva and I’ve been told by recruiters that it stood out to them and it increased my chances of getting an interview.

These are my two cents. It has helped me, and I really hope it helps you. Happy job hunting!

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/ImpossibleFutures on 2024-09-19 09:46:22+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/GreatMammon on 2024-09-19 07:20:45+00:00.

Has anyone won any of the big prizes?

Does anyone have insider knowledge?

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/UnfilteredCharm on 2024-09-19 06:49:08+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/computer_d on 2024-09-19 05:56:57+00:00.

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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/Laughing_Dan on 2024-09-19 05:33:34+00:00.