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ST. PAUL, Minn. (AP) — Minnesota Attorney General Keith Ellison sued Texas Governor Greg Abbott on Tuesday, seeking to compel the extradition of an Immigration and Customs Enforcement agent to stand trial for assault and falsely reporting a crime in the wounding of a man during the agency’s crackdown in Minneapolis.

Ellison said he would request a temporary restraining order barring the Cameron County Sheriff’s Office in Texas from releasing ICE agent Christian Castro and requiring Abbott to sign the extradition warrant allowing Minnesota law enforcement agents to take custody of him.

Castro was arrested 11 days after Minneapolis prosecutors charged him with assault and falsely reporting a crime in the Jan. 14 nonfatal shooting of Julio Cesar Sosa-Celis. The criminal complaint alleges that Castro fired a gun at the front door of a home in Minneapolis, striking a victim in the leg before lodging in a child’s bedroom wall, and then knowingly provided false information to an officer about it.

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Bad day... (lemmy.nz)
submitted 31 minutes ago* (last edited 31 minutes ago) by AnxiousMiisha@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 
 

So, today started out kinda well...
I had a job interview planned for the afternoon. I woke up, had a shower, shaved my arms and legs, dried my hair, put on some deodorant...
I just had to admire my soft skin, so I posted my legs on Lemmy 😆

I was feeling good. I decided to wear a black hoodie and my black jorts (black clothing, black heart 🖤, or something). Also, my lucky red panties for some reason lol. I don't wear a bra, since it's uncomfortable and my boobs aren't that big yet anyway (but they're getting there!)

My freshly shaved legs were completely exposed...but I didn't care. I felt good about myself. And then happily started my journey to the mall, where the interview took place.

Some people stared. I didn't care at all tho. I just went on with my life as usual. Just, normal me, don't mind me people 😄.

When I got to the mall, I made a quick restroom stop, to fix my hair and apply MOAR deodorant, not because I smelled bad, but because I like the smell 😆 (it's raspberry, my bf picked it out for me).

I arrived at the store for my interview (it's a clothing store). There were lots of people, young people, which made me a bit nervous...but I carried on. The staff (or manager?) took me into a room in the back and we sat down. He was extremely friendly and fun to be around. Handsome too 😊

I was to tell him about myself. I mentioned programming, reading, having a bit of social anxiety and trying to find a way to fix it (by working at a clothing store, I mean) and also transitioning. He was understanding, but after some talking, he told me they needed someone more accustomed to working with people (they're very busy). He told me it might be a too big of a shock for me and my anxiety, and I agreed...so I said goodbye, smiled one last time and left.

I didn't feel too bad. I didn't expect them to actually hire me, so I was prepared. It didn't bother me.
What did bother me tho was what came next...

A call from grandma. Asking me how I was doing (she knows I've been really struggling with dysphoria and depression, especially in the past couple of months). I told her I was doing better and that I had just had a job interview.
She's nice, but old...

so I got misgendered in every sentence.

So, when it started to really hurt, I gently corrected her. She basically said that she was old and struggling with "my new pronouns". She tried to use the correct ones the rest of the call, but it felt forced and honestly, she did pretty poorly.

I wasn't mad at her. I get it, it's really hard. But I've been out to her for a long time now...it just hurt a lot.
So I sat down on a bench, mind spinning from dysphoria. I texted my bf, which I thought might help me feel better...

it just got worse.

He basically told me "Oh, just speak in a higher pitch and yell, she'll get it soon enough" (because voice gendering is all about pitch, right?). That honestly hurt me more than anything previously had that day...
It felt almost like betrayal. Like the person closest to me, the love of my life, having zero understanding or empathy for me during a tough moment...

I was pretty shaken up. My dysphoria started getting worse. The outfit, the one I had thought looked so good on me in the morning...suddenly I thought I looked like a hooker, waiting on a bench for my client. Even worse...I thought I looked like a gay cis male prostitute.

And so I started crying while also walking home. I felt really bad. Soon, the wind picked up and I put my hair up in a ponytail. It was more practical that way...
But as soon as I got into the elevator in my apartment building and I saw what was in the mirror...I started crying even more. I HATE how my face looks with my hair put up...it's so different. So much...uglier, more masculine.

Sobbing, I got back home, to our apartment. And the wifi had died...an issue on the provider's side. I tried to fix it, but I couldn't do anything...
This was the bitter cherry on top for me. The day had started so well...and now turned to crap, as it often does when it starts a little too well.

I just had enough at that point, so I had a couple of candy bars and hugged my Blahaj to sleep.

Today sucked. A lot.
Things that I shrugged off pre-HRT can really upset me know. But even so...I wouldn't change a thing. I'd never stop taking E. Because I like having emotions, the good, bad and ugly. I don't enjoy being an emotionless zombie, like I was pre-HRT.

I can cry. I can let it out. HRT is the greatest gift life has bestowed upon me and I am forever grateful.

So I guess I just wanted to say: some days suck. Some days are great.
But...with the correct hormones, I feel like life is worth living. Life can be hard, but boobs are soft 😆

Take your meds girlies. I wish you all a better day than I had today. Love you all 💜

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He's making sure no one sneaks up on me while I'm cooking. Hes doing a good job.

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PJM Interconnection, the grid operator serving 67 million people across 13 states and Washington, D.C., asked federal regulators on Thursday to approve rules that would cut power to new data centers ahead of households during supply shortages, Reuters reports.

The filing with the Federal Energy Regulatory Commission follows two consecutive capacity auctions that failed to secure enough generation, and PJM's board projects roughly 70 GW of new large load by 2038 against roughly 15 GW of generation retired since 2022.

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“Florida Congressman Randy Fine was going door to door looking for votes ... and somehow ended up rifling through a voter's mail,” TMZ reported Tuesday.

In a video that has since gone viral, a man who TMZ identified as Fine can be seen ringing the homeowner’s doorbell before stepping toward a mailbox mounted on the porch wall. The man identified as Fine stands mostly still for about 15 seconds before opening the mailbox and rifling through envelopes.

While TMZ definitively declared that Fine's conduct did not run afoul of federal law that prohibits tampering with another person’s mail, other critics weren’t so sure.

Susan Acevedo, for instance, a Californian political strategist and candidate for San Jacinto City Council, argued that merely touching someone else’s mail could constitute a crime, and urged her more than 38,000 followers on X to contact law enforcement about the incident.

https://xcancel.com/barbiehhall/status/2089517980275110100

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But Musk ended up as more wrecking ball than problem solver. His agency did not help the FAA buy or implement any major system upgrades. He wrongly accused Verizon of running the FAA’s communications system, while also failing to turn Starlink into the agency’s telecom provider of choice. Its signature achievement was the termination of 400 FAA employees, including maintenance technicians at 18 different air traffic control centers.

In July 2025, the One Big Beautiful Bill Act authorized $12.5 billion in supplemental funding for a complete overhaul of the FAA’s air traffic control system. Of that total, roughly $5 billion is dedicated for software upgrades. And since Elon Musk’s DOGE fell short of its promises, the administration has invited Peter Thiel, another Republican megadonor, to step in at the FAA. His company Palantir is deeply integrated with the FAA’s systems, making it a prime contender for many of those contracts, despite no significant prior experience with air traffic control.

According to air traffic controllers — several of whom spoke to The Verge on condition of anonymity so as not to jeopardize their jobs — these moves will do little to alleviate the issues on the ground (and in the air). They say that the FAA’s most urgent needs remain on the personnel side.

None of the $12.5 billion in new FAA funding authorized by the One Big Beautiful Bill goes toward personnel. Instead, it seems destined for Palantir’s pockets.

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/50792888

Formula 1 for me.

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