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The DM was a DM asking us to change our no tankies policy and remove the fuck tankies banner as it was apparently upsetting hexbear users. Apparently tankies view the word tankie as a form of slur. The admin wants us to ally as a form of "left solidarity"

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[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 year ago (19 children)

Moss don't be leaking DM's in the future. You need to be tactical to be socially responsible. You could ask us - should we remove the banner? Or make a post saying that it may be upsetting Hexbears. I think the sentiment would have gone absolutely the same without showing your cards.

[–] moss@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah I agree. Leaking dms was totally the wrong move

[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

How about removing my comments criticizing ableism and using ableist language in your modlog response? Was that also a bad move? Or you gonna stick by that one?

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Let it rest, we've all seen that screenshot a dozen times now. Literally, let Moss rest. Mods are people too.

[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Let what rest? The fact I have been called a Nazi by this shithead reactionary mod and that hasn't been resolved?

Nah I tried to play nice but I am taking the gloves off now.

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'd rather you didn't harass my instance's moderators. I heard your community is defederating, right? Sounds like the decisions has been made for us already that we can agree to disagree.

[–] Nakoichi@hexbear.net 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Okay is removing my legitimate and diplomatically spoken terms and calling me "braindead" not harassment?

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 year ago

You are drawing out conflict rather than being the bigger person.

[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm not from either instance but you come off as really unhinged here

[–] RangeFourHarry@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There’s a whole boatload of drama, and this reaction is warranted

[–] GBU_28@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Comes off as whiney and ineffective. This is social media, not a marriage.

[–] Ram_The_Manparts@hexbear.net 1 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Comes off as whiney and ineffective.

Yeah, you do.

[–] moss@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago

I've given you the benefit of the doubt, I've responded to your criticisms repeatedly, but I'm done. You are now banned

[–] pimento64@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 year ago

Don't listen to that dumbass, post whatever you feel like

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