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Hi all! As promised, here is the proposed text of the newest version of the rules. The staff has gone through like eight drafts and literally thousands and thousands of matrix posts to get here, so please be kind. You can see @limeey's comment on the transparency post if you want more insight into how this sausage was made.

We are opening these rules to commentary from the community before they go into effect. To be clear, this isn't a vote, but we will take all community feedback into account and answer whatever questions we can before finalizing anything.

Please keep in mind that we are not Reddit, we do not have Reddit's resources, and safety and consent are our priorities.

I'll post the draft in two parts in two comments: The new sidebar, and the FAQ/clarifications page.

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[–] Madness@lemmynsfw.com 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (4 children)

No Non-Consensual Content: We strictly forbid content made or released without consent of everyone in the content, including revenge porn / deepfakes / leaked content / NC / true voyeur / rape content.

What about NC content that happened in movies/tv shows ? I've encountered some rape scenes, harassment, etc. That scenes can be hardcore or not. Is this forbidden too ? I've to take scenes like that as light as possible, making them out of context so it doesn't seems that "horrible". But yeah, for hardcore ones it's not possible. I'm asking this because I'm aware some people may find it very upsetting (even with the assumption everything is done with actors' consent)

For porn, I've encountered one of my favorite rough/NC porn like brutal x. I've noticed that at the very end of their videos, they clarify performers directly to make sure everything is done with their consent. Which I think it's really good

Edit : more clarity

[–] hwagoolio@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Note the temporary content restrictions -- CNC is still restricted.

[–] MikeyMongol@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Correct. For now. In the future, will you be able to post the excruciatingly long rape scene from Irreversible (assuming you comply with fair use provisions, of course)? Probably. But for right now that'll get you banned.

[–] JoyfulMouse@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Pornphilosoph@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 year ago

Consensual non consent. You agree before a bdsm scene, that you will fight against, but are ok with for example being overwhelmed.

As you can imagine you have to know your partner very good to do something like this and have to be able to follow good practice like RACK, SSC.