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[Discussion] Perception of Incel use of AI Girlfriends (lemmy.world)
submitted 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) by pavnilschanda@lemmy.world to c/aicompanions@lemmy.world
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Apparently there are several narratives in regards to AI girlfriends.

  1. Incels use AI girlfriends given that they can do whatever they desire.
  2. Forums observing incel spaces agree that incels should use AI girlfriends to leave real women alone
  3. The general public having concerns towards AI girlfriends because their users might be negatively impacted by their usage
  4. Incels perceiving this as a revenge fantasy because "women are jealous that they're dating AI instead of them"
  5. Forums observing incel spaces unsure if the views against AI girlfriends exist in the first place due to their previous agreement

I think this is an example of miscommunication and how different groups of people have different opinions depending on what they've seen online. Perhaps the incel-observing forums know that many of the incels have passed the point of no return, so AI girlfriends would help them, while the general public perceive the dangers of AI girlfriends based on their impact towards a broader demographic, hence the broad disapproval of AI girlfriends.

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[–] rufus@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (35 children)

There are narratives entirely without incels. For example the 2013 movie "Her". Or a bunch of other movies and TV series.

The entire TV series "Westworld" is exactly about this.

Also the picture in the community of hobbyists is quite more diverse. And I don't see science reducing it to that either. I'm currently reading a long paper about chatbot ethics. There are more comprehensive articles like "The man of your dreams" or "I tried the Replika AI companion". But I've heard the narrative you described, too. I'm not sure where you'd like to go with this conversation... I don't think it has anything to do with miscommunication. I see people having narrow and uneducated perspectives on all kinds of things...

Is there a broad disapproval? I can see how it's a controversial topic and kind of taboo, you probably wouldn't disclose this to your family, friends and co-workers. And it probably can manoeuvre you into a corner and make you even more lonely. But the same applies to playing video games or other hobbies.

And the big tech companies also are very cautious about AI companions. OpenAI, Google etc all cut down severely on this use-case. They put quite some effort in so you can't use ChatGPT as a friend or antropomorphize it.

Regarding "incels": I think there are two or three big articles about that, which I've read. "Men Are Creating AI Girlfriends and Then Verbally Abusing Them" comes to my mind. In the end I can't really empathize with incels. I don't understand or "feel" their perspective on the world. They do all kinds of harmful stuff and brag about it online. I'm not sure what to make of this.

[–] pavnilschanda@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (25 children)

Thanks for your input. I agree with your overall comment. Within general narratives, incels aren't usually included. As for the broad disapproval, it's something that I tend to notice in the AI space.

AI chatbot personas are generally seen as a hobby, a one-and-done thing compared to an "entity" that accompanies you for long periods of time; the latter part has more stigma attached to it. And given the AI boom only a few years ago, many people, including academic researchers, have only started to be aware of its existence and have made many uninformed assumptions about them. Not to mention the ethical minefelds that are yet to be explored, and increasingly so within the humanities such as psychology and anthropology, hence the Google Deepmind article that you shared. Given the sheer complexity surrounding AI companionship combined with the attention-based economy that has shaped our society, it makes sense that non-specialized places would adopt a binary approach when it comes to AI, artificial girlfriends included.

There seems to be strong connections between inceldom and AI companionship, given that AI girlfriends are marketed for lonely men, and many of them just happen to be incels. But as you've said, AI companion users are very diverse, it's just that the topic of incels or an incel-related topic would get brought up every now and then within the AI companionship discourse.

[–] Tull_Pantera@lemmy.today 1 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)
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