lemmy's current federation implementation works with a sending queue, so it stores a list of activities to be sent in its database. there is a worker running for each linked instance checking if an activity should be sent to that instance, and if it should, then send it. due to how this is currently implemented, this is always only sending a single activity at a time, waiting for this activity to be successfully sent (or rejected), then sending the next one.

an activity is any federation message when an instance informs another instance about something happening. this includes posts, comments, votes, reports, private messages, moderation actions, and a few others.

let's assume an activity is generated on lemmy.world every second. now every second this worker will send this activity from helsinki to sydney and wait for the response, then wait for the next activity to be available. to simplify things, i'll skip processing time in this example and just work with raw latency, based on the number you provided. now lemmy.world has to send an activity to sydney. this takes approximately 160ms. aussie.zone immediately responds, which takes 160ms for the response to get back to helsinki. in sum this means the entire process took 320ms. as long as only one activity is generated per second, this is easy to keep up with. still assuming there is no other time needed for any processing, this means about 3.125 activities can be transmitted from lemmy.world to aussie.zone on average.

the real activity generation rate on lemmy.world is quite a bit higher than 3.125 activities per second, and in reality there are also other things that take up some time during this process. over the last 7 days, lemmy.world had an average activity generation rate of about 5.45 activities per second. it is important to note here that not all activities generated on an instance will be sent to all other linked instance, so this isn't a reliable number of how many activities are actually supposed to be sent to aussie.zone every second, rather an upper limit. for example, for content in a community, lemmy will only send these activities to other instances that have at least one subscriber on the remote instance. although only a fraction of the activities, private messages are another example of an activity that is only sent to a single linked instance.

to answer the original question: the week of delay is simply built up over time, as the amount of lag just keeps growing.

additionally, lemmy also discards its queued activities that are older than a week once a week, so if you go over 7 days of lag for too long you will start completely missing activities that were over the limit. as previously explained, this can be any kind of federated content. it can be posts, comments, votes, which are usually not that important, but it can also affect private messages, which are then just lost without the sender ever knowing.

Like tears in th rain... 😢

That's sad to hear.

I'm really pushing for communities on other instances than LW to be used

• !movies@lemm.ee rather than !movies@lemmy.world
• !showsandmovies@lemm.ee rather than !television@lemmy.world
• !casualconversation@lemm.ee
• !dataisbeautiful@mander.xyz compared to !dataisbeautiful@lemmy.world
• !android@lemdro.id compared to !android@lemmy.world
• !linux@programming.dev compared to !linux@lemmy.world

That's not much, but hopefully that can help a bit

Having another look at the Aussie.zone All feed, it seems that now you get the posts in real time, but I guess then the votes are the actions that get federated with a week delay?

Example: https://aussie.zone/c/support@lemmy.world