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The original was posted on /r/newzealand by /u/FraudKid on 2024-10-13 20:31:46+00:00.
How do you kindly tell people that I don't ever want to have children?
For whatever reason, every person around me believes that children are my next agenda while I'm still young (26).
I don't want to be a father, never wanted to be one. I'm considering getting a vasectomy and it makes me laugh when people try warming up to me about 'when you have kids you'll...'
When I tell people I'm not interested in having children, they act like it's blasphemous. Maybe it's because we're so 'family orientated' in NZ.
So, any advice on how to come clean kindly about not wanting kids?