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I hadn't cried in 7 years and decided to do some emotional exercises to make myself cry. So I managed to cry about 4 months ago, haven't been able to since even with my grandmothers death. Might start trying again.

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When I moved to my current place of residence. It also coincided with a death, so it was a double whammy.

[–] SomeBoyo@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago

About 1.5 years ago, when my cat died.

[–] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 3 points 1 year ago

I get teary almost every day - not from sadness, but from watching my kids have a positive experience or trying my best to tell them I love them.

But sort of real, proper crying was at my mom’s funeral, before, during and after. That was three years ago.

[–] lichtmetzger@feddit.de 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When I watched "The Whale" at the movie theater. Half of the room was crying at the end.

[–] Gargantu8@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do you recommend it? Not familiar really

[–] lichtmetzger@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago

Absolutely! It's a really good movie.

[–] Kyoyeou@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 year ago

3 days ago. It was the last day with my girlfriend until the Christmas period. I saw in my watch there was only 15 minutes before she needed to go. Something happened in my brain

[–] SecretPancake@feddit.de 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Happy cry: I watched Coda for the second time.

Sad cry: when I put my dog down.

[–] Retix@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Just a couple days ago, thinking about my cat that I had to put down ~6 months ago. He was sick and in pain but I'm still sad about it.

I don't think you need to push yourself to cry. Everyone processes their emotions differently. For a long time I also didn't cry much/at all. I was very guarded about my emotions. Between getting older and my wife, whom I can be completely open with, I have gotten more emotional as I have gotten older.

This morning. I cry pretty regularly though. It's a good way to keep myself in touch with myself.

[–] theKalash@feddit.ch 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Whenever I last rewatched ATLA.

At the last movie probably haha

[–] Gabbro@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

7 years ago, before the day my first dog was euthanized at the vet.

Either I've had it alright so far or my medication is keeping it in at this point...

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[–] KlavKalashj@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I cry almost every day. Two kids under two can be exhausting sometimes, and I have a lot of stress and anxiety. They are awesome, I just can't handle it all the time. I'm lucky enough to have an awesome wife who's very supportive, so we'll get through it!

[–] Nemo@midwest.social 2 points 1 year ago

About four hours ago.

[–] kamenlady@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Real crying? 7 years ago...

[–] Ulv@feddit.nu 2 points 1 year ago

A coworker asked me if i was ok and i just broke down hyperventilatin and sobbing

[–] hactar42@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I teared up a little yesterday watching Elemental for the first time. Last time I full on cried was when I watched Coco with my daughter.

Father's Day a couple weeks ago (in Australia). Something my 8yo daughter wrote in my card, reminded me of how my own dad isn't with me any more, and wasn't around to see me become a dad. Happens most Father's Days, to be honest.

[–] khaffner@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Last week. Why? "You bow to no one"

Last Monday driving to work after filing divorce papers for court date with my ex-wife.

[–] small44@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Last week listening to one life by the last emperor

[–] bored_runaway@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

30 years ago when I was 15 or so. From time to time it worries me a bit.

[–] aceshigh@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I do grief work daily. I don’t cry often but I’m grateful when I do. It means that I’m healing.

[–] BumpingFuglies@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yesterday, while watching Beastars on Netflix, I shed some tears. Show's surprisingly good, despite its furry leanings.

But the last time I sobbed was during the finale of the Last of Us show. As a dad, that penultimate scene wrecked me emotionally.

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[–] PeWu@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

The last time I cried out of emotions was when watching a game that you play by blinking. I don't remember the name, but it was emotional, and I couldn't help crying. Yeah, lame, I know.

[–] Redex68@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

It's not hard for me to cry because of a TV show, but for personal reasons I probably haven't cried in 4 years at least, probably more but idk.

[–] mifan@feddit.dk 1 points 1 year ago

I’m at a wedding - I’ve been happy crying throughout the night. But I’m an emotional guy - I can cry to xfactor videos or those homecoming compilations. I’m an easy target, but I love to cry. It clears out the system.

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