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Chronic Illness

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A community/support group for chronically ill people. While anyone is welcome, our number one priority is keeping this a safe space for chronically ill people.

This is a support group, not a place for people to spout their opinions on disability.

Rules

  1. Be excellent to each other

  2. Absolutely no ableism. This includes harmful stereotypes: lazy/freeloaders etc

  3. No quackery. Does an up-to date major review in a big journal or a major government guideline come to the conclusion you’re claiming is fact? No? Then don’t claim it’s fact. This applies to potential treatments and disease mechanisms.

  4. No denialism or minimisation This applies challenges faced by chronically ill people.

  5. No psychosomatising psychosomatisation is a tool used by insurance companies and governments to blame physical illnesses on mental problems, and thereby saving money by not paying benefits. There is no concrete proof psychosomatic or functional disease exists with the vast majority of historical diagnoses turning out to be biomedical illnesses medicine has not discovered yet. Psychosomatics is rooted in misogyny, and consisted up until very recently of blaming women’s health complaints on “hysteria”.

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[–] ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 76 points 2 months ago (2 children)

only one choice

checkboxes rather than radio buttons

This is also a crime against user interface design.

[–] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 30 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 months ago

apple WHY?? 😭😭 WHY IS IT ALWAYS YOU, APPLE?!

[–] Xanthrax@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I'm assuming they're required to present the questions in that way, but they added the last parentheses as a loophole.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago (3 children)

My #1 problem since the heart attacks is the opposite of depression... I simply stopped caring about a lot of things. Nothing really seems important anymore once you wake up in a hospital and are told "Yeah, your heart stopped for 8 seconds..."

But they don't have a category for that.

"Oh, you're depressed..."

"No, I'm not, I find it actually kind of freeing not thinking anything is really important anymore..."

[–] phdepressed@sh.itjust.works 22 points 2 months ago

A lack of caring is one of the main signs of depression. Depression isn't so much the sads but a lack of caring/motivation regarding life. That's why you see depressed people often have sinks of dishes or piles of laundry. It starts with one "fuck it" and gets worse from there. Of course as the pile gets larger then it takes even more motivation to clean and in the meantime every time it grows you're frustrated with yourself and mentally beat yourself up. You beat yourself up enough it makes you not care about your life, you stop caring if drivers see you when you cross the street, you daydream about being in an accident on the way to work/shool. Etc until you get help/better or suicide (likely fail) and then get help/better.

This is different from not caring about the little annoyances in life.

[–] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

This sounds very similar to the quote in The Hurt Locker

Paraphrasing horribly: "I either diffuse the bomb or it's not my problem anymore."

It's a very interesting take on life.

My uncle who recently had a mild stroke actually has stopped giving fucks.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

That's a form of depression.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

I should clarify, I haven't stopped caring in general, just about things that I would have cared about previously.

It's actually incredibly liberating, but it's driving my wife crazy. She'll absolutely explode over something and my reaction is "So? Is it really THAT important? No? Let it go then."

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yep. Screening questionnaire for a sleep study.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You need to find a different sleep doctor.

[–] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It was more the lab than the doctor but point taken. In a more perfect world I would do so, but this doesn't even make the top 10 in terms of medical issues for me. The test served the purpose of finally getting an OSA diagnosis. Now it's up to Dr. Beancounter, MBA to decide whether I get a CPAP machine or not. St. Luigi willing, there's no shenanigans to navigate.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Best of luck to you. I'm glad the sleep study was productive.

[–] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 months ago

Thank ya, kind internet stranger.