this post was submitted on 23 Jul 2023
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Café

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Welcome to our virtual third place, The Café.

Come on in and make a new human connection over a cup of coffee (or Teh Tarik). This is a casual community, do whatever you want, share your oyen pics, your frustrations, and even organize a weekend picnic with the community. The world is your oyster.

Rules are simple, be kind and civil with each other. As with any other café, rude patrons will be kicked out.

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[–] Naomikho@monyet.cc 8 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 4 points 1 year ago
[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 4 points 1 year ago

Same HAHAHA

[–] kratoz29@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The difference is, I can finish my feed, in Reddit I could not, but boredom won every time lol.

[–] Naomikho@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah that's because reddit shows you posts that even you're not subscribed to, while Lemmy doesn't unless you browse all.

[–] kratoz29@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Well, Reddit did not for me, I used Sync for Reddit and never detected this behavior.

[–] Naomikho@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ah right.. I only switched to 3rd party apps at a later time so I was mostly used to the standard experience.

[–] kratoz29@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

Huh that sucks mate, well, you are better here.

[–] frieslovingvampire@monyet.cc 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Weekend well spent with my guy, stuffing myself with food and so much laughter. Love love love him so much! Fella was so excited to watch Barbie he wore pink for Oppenheimer and we weren't even doing movie marathon 😝😝 Food tax hnnnghh

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[–] nanabies@monyet.cc 6 points 1 year ago (2 children)

New on monyet.cc. Whats cooking?

[–] imaginelizard@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago

Hola, welcome to the community!

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago

Cookie! Want some? ༼ つ ◕_◕ ༽つ🍪

[–] penangkia@monyet.cc 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

Someone just passive-aggressively reminded me I could block people on Mastodon, and if I can't adhere to CW requests perhaps I should get off Mastodon. Wow, these Mastodon HOA people are one kind.

PS: A few days ago, I blew my top when someone told me to CW my food photos. Since food is the way us Malaysians talk to each other on Mastodon, I feel it's really too much they ask me to CW. Since then a few people explained that food can be triggering to people with eating disorders. But then other people say CW can also worsen eating disorders. Apalah you cannot win. Why don't they leave us alone lol. I think i'll just limit my posts to #MakanApaToday and #FediTiam and exclude #Food cos I dah fed up with the HOA* people. This is sad cos I use #Food so we can reach non-Malaysians, but it attracts the hornets. Maybe I use #expatasia instead (someone asked me to include the hashtag so the expats can find these posts)

All of this nonsense makes me glad that we have a "safe" space here on monyet.cc, where we can be completely Malaysian without some reply dude/dudette come and lecture you for melanggar some cultural rule you are not even aware of. I feel more relaxed here. A bit sad. I now understand why Black Twitter never felt comfortable enough in the Fediverse.

*Home Owners Association - people on Mastodon who patrol it to make sure everyone behave and follow rules. Like prefects, but worse.

[–] laconicsoftware@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Whoa, I'm on mastodon and love pics of food. What's your @?

[–] penangkia@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

It's at hachyderm.io/@liztai

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[–] seacat@monyet.cc 5 points 1 year ago

Morning meeting cancelled today 🙌

[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Weekend wasn't too busy but was out both days so baru today now back on monyet.cc Alooo

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago

Welcome back haha 🙈

[–] rakyat@monyet.cc 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

#TIL that Ms Puiyi is the Malaysian Instagram account with the most followers.

[–] penangkia@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Well. I can see the appeal? 🤭What did she do la to get highlighted by #TwitterJaya

[–] rakyat@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago

You mean Xjaya? 🙃

[–] seriouslyjk@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Monday blue leh T.T when's the next public holiday hahahaahah

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[–] oyenyaaow@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (20 children)

Just curious, why is the 10^th^ July daily thread pinned?

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[–] dukeGR4@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

just bought a brand new camera, Ricoh GR3x!

My neglected X-Pro 2 and Nikon Z6 are both giving me bombastic side eye now....

idk man i kinda need a lot of cameras. Z6 for me is like an SUV, big, heavy, capable. X-Pro 2 is like an analog sports car neo-retro style. Ricoh GR3x is like a Mazda Miata - small, nimble and is probably all you need.

I pray that Fuji does not release X70 mark 2, later i commit wallet crimes again.

[–] OldManGenghis@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Man people do be asking if the pakcik selling cheap nasi campur from his car is paying taxes.

Do you want to get beat up or what?

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Even if they want to, they likely doesn't make enough to get taxed. These people got nothing to do ke wtf

[–] dukeGR4@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@.@ you underestimate a lot of F&B sellers, their profit margin is insane... many have very low operating cost cause they occupy public space and what not.

[–] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Not all lah, else they already rich lor

[–] dukeGR4@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Most are rich if they could survive the first couple of years. They just live a very modest life.

Most don’t even pay tax, do cash business. Operating illegally without license.

[–] cendawanita@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

//can't tag this right so gonna reply to a thread//

[–] oyenyaaow@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 year ago

Cafe banner should be monkeys for April fool

[–] Thebigbot@monyet.cc 1 points 1 year ago

I had no idea who 1975 was, this has been great publicity for them. Still haven't listened to their music though

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