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I'm currently struggling to find my home. I have an account here at lemmy.ml, where most of my posts are, and one at kbin.

Why do you think your instance is the place to be?

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[โ€“] Skooshjones@vlemmy.net 3 points 1 year ago

Randomly came across mine. Was gunna join a larger instance just for testing, but it was right as the big Reddit rush was happening and my signups kept failing.

So I went with this one.

[โ€“] hotdogcostanza@lemm.ee 3 points 1 year ago

lemm.ee said it was newcomer-friendly and I was a newcomer so bingo bango there I went. I suppose I can always join a different instance if I need to but I'm still just getting a grip on this place so I'm good for now.

[โ€“] nebula42@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago

i moved over to lemmy.world after i heard somewhere that lemmy.ml was run by a tankie and had been censoring proof of the tiananmen square massacre. idk if it's true or not, but I didn't wanna take any chances.

[โ€“] SinJab0n@mujico.org 3 points 1 year ago

I actually made my home in the one hosting a previous reddit community I was fond of, just choose one u like.

[โ€“] psyspoop@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

I ended up with kbin.social since I liked the interface, liked the roadmap and existing integration with Mastodon, and because that instance was the one everyone was suggesting for KBin at the time. I'll most likely spin up my own instance for myself and maybe a small group of others to join.

[โ€“] tacticaltweaker@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Lemmy.world initially cause I didn't like the overbearing moderation and locked communities of beehaw.org and the developers of lemmy.ml. Kbin seems to be great and I prefer its timeline / sorting, I just wish it was a bit more polished with magazine syncing and certain UI features, but that should come with time.

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I have four!

Beehaw was my first, when I joined it was 3rd or 4th most users, but had just been upgraded (per a pinned post) and had a cool community vibe. This was like a few days pre protest I think?

Lemmy.one got made on the first day of the mass Exodus, and beehaw was STRUGGLING. I knew the mods were a small team and the server wasnt able to keep up so I went to a less populated instance.

Reddthat.com is new and I haven't used it yet, I went there because it seemed middle of the pack, and I wanted to have an account where I create a community.

And then lemmynsfw is for...actually, I miscounted I only have three accounts.

[โ€“] freebrick@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

I initially made an account here because it looked cool. But I didn't know that kbin was part of the Federation so I also made an account on the newly created lemmy.world instance just to bounce between kbin and lemmy. But once federation was enabled here I subscribed to all the communities I had subscribed on lemmy world. Still bounce between the two buuuuut spending most of my time here. Love you guys!

[โ€“] DarkGamer@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I prefer kbin's UI to the other federated servers I've tried. Beehaw is probably #2 for me, and it seems like a really nice community. Mastodon.social is also cool but it's a lot more twitter-like which I have a hard time getting used to.

I made an account at kbin.social and just went with it. It's all gonna be federated anyway (unless it gets defederated) and each day actually feels like it's improving.

[โ€“] runningman@lemmy.one 2 points 1 year ago

I chose what was a smaller instance to try to spread things out

[โ€“] mdwhite999@vlemmy.net 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Vlemmy.net as it currently hasn't defederated from anyone or been defederated.

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[โ€“] Mrremrem@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I chose lemmy.world after lemmy.ml closed their registration. Just glad I made my account somewhere.

[โ€“] Hyacathusarullistad@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I chose kbin.social because of the alleged tankie issues at Lemmy. I didn't know enough about the fediverse to realise though that only a handful of Lemmy instances were included in the "warning" I'd heard about, so I looked to kbin instead.

Based on what I've seen from the admin here, though, I'm confident I'm in the right instance. He seems like an honest, stand-up dude who genuinely believes in all the best things the fediverse seems to be capable of

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[โ€“] small44@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm on Beehaw because there are no downvote button

[โ€“] gurmif@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

But what would happen if I down voted you from a different instance?

[โ€“] HybridHuman@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'm using https://lemmy.dbzer0.com because I can't start an account in lemmy.ml

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[โ€“] ram@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 year ago

I went with lemmy.ca because I figured it'd put me in proximity to Canadian Political discourse.

[โ€“] wumpus@latte.isnot.coffee 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I was told it was better for load balancing if we didn't all use the same one. So I just looked for one that had easy signups and didn't seem overeager to block stuff. Apparently, some from this instance come form /r/china. I'm not, but I do drink coffee. Anyway, I think it's working out so far; better than reddit anyway.

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[โ€“] Sir_Kevin@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I chose beehaw. I chose wrong. So now I'm on lemmy.world and nothing was lost ๐Ÿ˜Ž

[โ€“] jclinares@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Kbin has my favorite interface from the federated sites I've seen, and the developer seems like a decent dude.

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[โ€“] pizza_time@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I've been using Kbin and Lemmy so far and I like both, but Kbin seems much more stable right now. I like kbin interface a bit more and the ranking algo seems to work better (there an issue on lemmy with hot and posts being added that should not be there). Kbin also let's me sort by 3hr/6hr/12hr in addition to normal sorting options.

[โ€“] axzxc1236@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

lemmy.ml says they are overloaded, I then found beehaw but they requires signup application so I say fuck it and choose lemmy.world instead.

[โ€“] lixus98@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I chose kbin, loved the integration with mastodon

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I was curious when I heard about Kbin. I like it so far

[โ€“] riskable@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I chose Kbin because at the time I went searching it was the only option that was working/responsive haha.

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