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Obviously I can understand why mysoginists are hated upon, As their belief is all women are trash or men are superior etc. But why are incels also generally hated upon? They are lacking in a way that makes them unable to gey in a relationship, but that shouldn't necessarily mean they are mysoginists, right?

What am I missing here? I haven't ever had a relationship with a woman, but I don't hate all women either. I just consider myself unlucky. Does that make me an incel?

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[–] leanleft@lemmy.ml 2 points 9 months ago

the internet is a dumping ground for suppressed frustration

[–] Hovenko@iusearchlinux.fyi 2 points 9 months ago

Incel is a shit person who is unable to have romantic relationships with women and blames/hates them for that. They also tend to hate men who are successful in that regard. They are simply toxic squiggly emo worms.

[–] retrolasered@lemmy.zip 2 points 9 months ago

I think theres what the word actually means, and then theres the stereotyped version that maybe has more power, ie angry about being celebate, poor mental health, usually hates women because of it.

Perhaps involuntarily celebate and incel mean slightly different things to each other by now.

[–] xigoi@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 9 months ago

Because people mostly know about the vocal minority that posts a lot of hateful content, presumably mostly for attention. This is exacerbated by the just world fallacy — people want to believe that if someone is unhappy, they must have done something bad to deserve it.

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