Mansplaining vs ND Over-clarifying : adhd

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 5 points 9 months ago

Then there's my wife for whom it's both. I'm the idiot she has to explain her complicated thoughts to.

[–] Beebabe@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

I can always tell between when thoughts are (bonus thoughts) or when they’re condescending. Most the time it’s neither, but there are some assholes.

[–] Nikls94@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

I‘m like expecting the problem is me, changing what needs to be changed so I can definitely not be the problem, and then blame you.

[+] RealFknNito@lemmy.world 1 points 9 months ago

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[–] shiveyarbles@beehaw.org 1 points 9 months ago

I always assume nobody cares so just summarize in a sentence

[–] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 0 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (1 children)

No I mansplain because too many dumb fucks in my life will tell me they understand what I mean and then when I explain it anyway they have no idea what I meant.

Sucks to suck stupid people ruined it for everyone now y'all have to listen to explanations regardless.

[–] discostjohn@programming.dev 3 points 9 months ago (2 children)

So, everyone suffers because you surround yourself with people that you think are beneath you?

[–] BorgDrone@lemmy.one 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

The thing is that there are almost an infinite number of things you can learn and you only have enough time to learn a few of them. So if I talk to someone else, there is a very small chance that person spent their limited time learning the exact same things I did. Of course, this depends on context. At work I assume that the people who also work in the quite specific niche I’m in have a large overlap in knowledge, but a random person I meet anywhere else probably won’t even be aware that this thing I know a lot about is even a thing. Not because they are stupid but because they spent their time learning other stuff I know fuck all about.

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[–] veroxii@aussie.zone -1 points 9 months ago

So which one is this post?

[+] ModsAreCopsACAB@lemm.ee -6 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago) (2 children)

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[–] Tiltinyall@beehaw.org 2 points 9 months ago

I just got into a huge argument with my friend while fixing her car. When I met her she was swapping the motor out and I thought I could be some help. I wasn't much help but I'm still putting effort in. What I'm saying is this argument we had, I still think I was right, but she's dealt with soo many assholes that she just wasn't gonna hear it from me and my poor communication skills.

[–] ModsAreCopsACAB@lemm.ee -2 points 9 months ago

So you're either autistic or mansplaining? This is sexist as fuck lmao. Some SJW pulled this out of her ass and you're all gullible for believing it.

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