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[–] Duenan@aussie.zone 5 points 3 months ago

Diving down into the rabbit hole won’t do you any favours.

I don’t know how you can move on from this but just that you felt a lot more strongly about him than how he felt about you.

I know you wanted to be happy but it doesn’t have to be with someone who wasn’t into you, it wouldn’t be worth it.

A photo/movie is one instant snapshot of a moment. That’s all it is and you don’t need to add more into the narrative of it to make yourself feel bad about it.

You do have to accept that he wasn’t the one but there’s plenty of others out there who would be a better match for you. It’ll take time so go slowly.