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Daily Discussion Thread 🥰🛫🏞️🏜️🏙️🌉 Tuesday, August 6, 2024 (aussie.zone)

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[–] SituationCake@aussie.zone 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)

There’s lots of good reasons people unfollow, eg grew appart, or they are going through some life events, cutting back on social media, etc. When you unfollow someone, do you expect them to feel the same? Might help with the perspective. Meaning, do you think it’s ok for you to unfollow someone but don’t like it if others do the exact same?

[–] Pilk@aussie.zone 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Oh totally, I have no issue coming up with a hundred perfectly reasonable explanations. It's the initial sting of rejection -- rational or otherwise -- I can't seem to avoid ;)

[–] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 4 points 3 months ago

it's totally normal to feel that way , no one likes to feel rejected and a normal person blames themself but like Cake said, you just don't know so don't take it personally