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Btw, bigotry does not need to be conscious or intentional or malicious to be real and cause harm, and you can be transphobic even when you're not trying to or believe you're are not

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[–] sapient_cogbag@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It was fucking gross.

People just openly calling "the majority of" trans people oversensitive and having a victim complex. Blegh <.<

[–] unmarketableplushie@pawb.social 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I know, right?

Moss, if you're reading this, do better. You might not consider that kind of rhetoric transphobic, but you don't speak for all trans people here. And most of the trans members of this community who have spoken on this are talking about how uncomfortable it makes them feel to see this kind of shit being tolerated. For the love of god, do better.

[–] ohkoifishy@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah idk if it's just me but I'm getting weird vibes from the moderation here. First it's the forcing every title to have the word rule, which wasn't enforced in the original sub, and now this.

[–] Nikki@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

its crazy, because the trans people ive met are some of the strongest people i know, myself included

having to deal with the worst of people will do that to a community, and getting blamed for being oversensitive, just for wanting to exist just adds to that