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Yup, same here.
What's bad is that some of my family still like to get all pissy when I tell them to gtfo when they come to me for an answer after they've wasted my time by arguing over things they had come to me for in the past.
Don't ask me your random crap, wait for me to give a good answer, then argue with me. Even if I was wrong, why the hell did you come up me in the first place if you didn't think I knew what you were asking about?
Like you, if I don't know, I say I don't know. And I'll be clear about any gaps or uncertainty. More rigorously than I do online because idgaf about random online opinions, and I still usually follow those rules online.
For a couple of years, I would tell my sister that I'm not her private google after she made a habit of wasting my time asking things and then arguing things that she didn't know in the first place, and arguing wrong things. Just got tired of being taken for granted.
Mind you, if she'd heard the answer and just asked more questions, discussing the matter, it would be fine. But saying things as utterly infuriating as "but it said on facebook", and "I don't believe you" pushed me to my patience limit lol. Like, what? If you didn't think I was reliable after the hundreds of things I was right about before, why did you even ask?