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Hi everyone,

I just had my account deactivated from Discord for ToS violation (I didn't do anything wrong, I just tried to send a friend request), but that's not the most important thing.

Now that I no longer have an account, and I've been wanting to leave Discord for a while for a better, self-hosted, open-source alternative, this is the best time.

I know of Matrix, XMPP servers and applications that work very well, but none of them work in the same way, or have the same feel as Discord. I see more alternatives for professional use than for gamers or communities.

Revolt exists, but last time I checked, you can't really host it yourself, and I haven't read good things about it. (I don't remember the website listing all the negative aspects.)

That brings me to my two questions.

  1. Can you list some alternative to Discord that I probably don't know ?
  2. If you want a alternative to Discord, what are your requirements to using it ? I'm not saying I can or will, but I think I can try to create one.

PS: I already trying to get my account back (but I have the same response from the support and I can't send request to "Appeals & Age Update Requests" because of ToS violation) and even if I manage to get it back I really want to leave discord right now.

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[–] GolfNovemberUniform@lemmy.ml 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

There indeed was an alternative called Revolt. Idk if it's still maintained. Though I had quite bad experience with it so can't recommend. Another alternative is Guilded which seems dead in terms of development but it has an active (and very small) user base. I think it can even be self-hosted. But ultimately you need to be ready for changes if you want to leave Discord. There's nothing quite like it, especially in terms of convenience and popularity.

[–] meldrik@lemmy.wtf 14 points 2 weeks ago

I’m pretty sure revolt.chat is still going? I am using it.

[–] Aatube@kbin.melroy.org 2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I think you confused Revolt and Guilded. Guilded is the proprietary one developed by Roblox.

[–] GolfNovemberUniform@lemmy.ml 0 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

No, mister/miss. I am sure I had bad experience with Revolt. Guilded seemed fine but I haven't used it much myself.

EDIT: also Guilded originally was an independent project which then was bought by Roblox.

[–] Aatube@kbin.melroy.org 2 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah, my point being Guilded was always proprietary and never hostable.