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  • irl family relations
  • included

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  • if you can
  • please bullet point
  • thanks :D

MINE (just sharing 1!)

- cat dad

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[โ€“] savvywolf@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This is actually something I've been thinking about a lot as of late...

I broadly have three "identities":

  • My "IRL" identity, for work and family life and stuff.
  • My "online" identity where I pretend to be a wolf-thing.
  • My "spicy online" identity which... Well, it'd be rude to share. :P

I've been wondering how isolated to keep them... But as part of my recent plan to stop worrying about everything so much, I'm trying to not get too stressed about ways people could figure out how to "link them together". I highly doubt that anyone is going to take the time to run my reputation through the mud. And even if they tried, I like to think we live in modern times where the fact that I look at werewolf boobs isn't going to be that morally objectionable.

Or at least, I hope so.

[โ€“] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

My "spicy online" identity which... Well, it'd be rude to share. :P

It'd be rude *not to share. FTFY