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"Really, dude? I am so tired of you asking that. It's none of your business if I'm ok or not. Stop asking."
Tell him directly first. Then if he persists go to your boss or HR and tell them you think probably he is trying to be nice but keeps interrupting your work and won't stop, and the distractions are starting to interfere with your work.
Seriously, just say this OP. You being an introvert has nothing to do with saying the bare minimum. It's honestly insulting using that as a crutch, introverts just don't like extended social interaction and need time to recharge. We aren't timid or frozen.
Correction: introverts may or may not like extended social interaction, and need time to recharge.