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I am a 23 year old female with a IQ of 76. Ask me anything

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[–] monobot@lemmy.ml 12 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Thank you for this AMA it is very interesting to get your viewpoint.

I have many questions, feel free not to answer them if you don't like them.

When have you discovered that you are different? What happened? Why did you take IQ tests?

Can you share story about something that is different between you and average people?

Is your memory worse or just the thinking process?

Do you have any idea why your IQ is so low? Is it just coincidence or something happened while you were young?

How can I recognize that someone has low IQ? How should I act when I meet someone with low IQ, should I use simpler sentences or simpler ideas?

Thank you.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 20 points 5 days ago (3 children)

"When have you discovered that you are different? What happened? Why did you take IQ tests?"

I was always slower then other kids my age. When I was 14 I was made to do an IQ test by the teachers in my school when I discovered my IQ at the time was 73.

"Can you share story about something that is different between you and average people?"

There's plenty. When I was 18 somebody asked me how to spell something and I just couldn't spell it and I broke down in tears. It was pretty embarrassing.

"Is your memory worse or just the thinking process?"

I think it's both. My memory isn't very good and my thinking process is very limited.

"Do you have any idea why your IQ is so low? Is it just coincidence or something happened while you were young?"

I think my mom drank while she was pregnant. Which explains why I'm different then my brothers and sisters. I don't know if that's true though maybe I just lost the genetic lottery.

"How can I recognize that someone has low IQ? How should I act when I meet someone with low IQ, should I use simpler sentences or simpler ideas?"

Not really, IQ isn't immediately obvious like other disabilities and if you meet someone with low IQ just speak and treat them like there anyone else.

[–] BCsven@lemmy.ca 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Your responses suggest a higher score in language, is your 73 the average of all the test areas? Such as math, etc.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 1 points 4 days ago

My 73 score was when I was 14 it's now 76. I don't know the average IW of my area.

[–] monobot@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Thank you for sharing your story, it must be a difficult life. Life is hard with 120, I barely make it, I can not even imagine your case especially together with NPD.

I have seen your other AMA about NPD, and I can understand "trauma". I "only" had really bad decades long depression and anxiety and have found way out of it with good therapy (which is rare).

Good luck to you, I hope you will have some luck further on.

[–] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 2 points 4 days ago

Thank you for your understanding. I don't think all mental illness's are caused by trauma. I don't know where my NPD or HPD came from. I really wish I could be like everyone else. I feel like I'm being sabotaged from within.

[–] anindefinitearticle@sh.itjust.works -5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

... treat them like they're anyone else.

FTFY

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Is this a meme? Context, man...