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I'm 34, and i feel hopeless, ive been in relationships that don't work out and i end up hurting myself, and i find it really hard to find someone who likes the same things as me, and i blame it on my socioeconomic status and my looks. I try to find somewhere to put the blame, but it's obvious that it's me.

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[–] LadyMeow@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I guess enjoy your passions and try to meet people who share the same interested. Don’t focus on the gender or finding a date. Just enjoy yourself. Then, maybe you’ll be happy and alone!

Hah. Or maybe find someone idk

[–] 1985MustangCobra@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 week ago

thanks, i agree, I will keep enjoying myself, or find someone i hope.