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My 3 year old has taken up parkour. How do I keep her from killing herself? (lemmy.world)
submitted 6 days ago by Scott_of_the_Arctic@lemmy.world to c/parenting@lemmy.world
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So my three year old has, since she was little, been really into jumping. I try to warn her that she could seriously injure herself, but this hasn't happened yet so she doesn't think I'm serious. But she jumps over and off anything. Sisters bunk bed to the armchair 2 meters away? No problem. Bunk bed to the floor? Sticks the landing every time. I swear my partner must have cheated on me with a f##king spider monkey.

How do I convince her to not do the jumps that could break her ankle if she lands wrong? I'm not getting through to her. I'm happy she is physically active, but she's taking the piss.

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[–] toofpic@lemmy.world 20 points 5 days ago

My position is that if at the end of a day your kid still has the same amount of limbs and eyes, it's fine. My kids are 8 and 10 now, they're active, and they more or less know what's dangerous and what's not, because they fell of things face-first a couple of times.
Overprotecting can also be dangerous just for development. When my daughter was like 5, she had a friend af the same age, a girl who DIDN'T LEARN HOW TO RUN, because her mom was scared for her. I'm happy we didn't go crazy about safety. Your kid wants to jump off a cupboard? You can just comment that it could be painful, and maybe show a picture of a fractured ankle x-ray.