I often see an issue when trying to communicate your point here, (which I agree with and I also agree that that Patriarchy is a problem), there is no good way to name and call out those as you put it "radical anti-patriarchy combatants."

Very few are willing to name or talk about "the Matriarchy" or "toxic Femininity." So we either end up trying to use a long string of less impactful words, (like you did), or we just sweep those "radical anti-patriarchy combatants" under the too broad umbrella of Patriarchy and end up hidden from sight.

So the next time you need to call out one of those radical anti-patriarchy combatants, name them for what they are-- a toxic feminist and are adding to the problem of the Matriarchy. Just as you would call out any toxic male as being a problem part of the Patriarchy. Then sit back and watch them come unglued.

Because we desperately need equality for all and we need to support each other as best we can and when we can. To quote the famous Canadian philosopher, Red Green-- "Remember, we're all in this together."