Off My Chest
RULES:
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1. The "good" part of our community means we are pro-empathy and anti-harassment. However, we don't intend to make this a "safe space" where everyone has to be a saint. Sh*t happens, and life is messy. That's why we get things off our chests.
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3. Frustrated, venting, or angry posts are still welcome.
4. Posts and comments that bait, threaten, or incite harassment are not allowed.
5. If anyone offers mental, medical, or professional advice here, please remember to take it with a grain of salt. Seek out real professionals if needed.
6. Please put NSFW behind NSFW tags.
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Yeah, onboarding is a major bottleneck to jumping into lemmy.
I can't say that's a bad thing, but it does make it a barrier to large scale adoption.
That being said, I'm kinda surprised that jerboa didn't work for you. I've never run into trouble manually entering instances, but it's been a while since I used it. While it isn't exactly the best app for lemmy, it's the most reliable overall. Well, on android, no idea about iOS.
But, I noticed you said you were a sync user at reddit. Sync for lemmy is pretty reliable, though (as was the case with reddit) the developer does the whole no updates, then a single big one thing, so it can lag behind lemmy version updates a good bit. I'm using it right now, and it's fully functional for a user. Can't moderate on it. It also has some issues with markup handling, but every app has some quirk or another with that. That's a lemmy thing tbh.
Connect is another reliable app, purpose built for lemmy. Boost and eternity (which was infinity before) are both essentially the same as the reddit versions. Summit and thunder are nice ones that are lemmy based. Tastes vary, but those are the ones I've liked most.
The good thing is, with that barrier to entry, you tend to not have as many idiots. The kind of folks that will sign up and spam shit while being an twerp because it's easy to do tend to get filtered out. So the overall experience here is more fulfilling. Might want to avoid lemmy.ml, and hexbear if you aren't pretty radically leftist, and just avoid lemmygrad entirely.