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[–] ddash@lemmy.dbzer0.com 80 points 1 day ago (4 children)

This is what gets me every time. Once this goes public everyone starts saying, ah yeah, no wonder, they had a reputation already, I knew they were sketchy and so on. So where the fuck where you (not you Hasherm0n, the people bringing this up) all this time? This could have ended so much earlier if people would speak up and make it more public.

[–] Hugin@lemmy.world 25 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There is a big difference between knowing a persons reputation and knowing their actions. Sometimes a person with a bad rep does small things you pick up on that reinforces the feeling. But you still don't actually know enough to accuse them.

It's a big deal accusing a powerful person. They are usually going to deny it and people are going to ask for proof. If all you have is rumors and a feeling it only hurts you.

It took several women coming forward with what happened to them to get the public on their side. Imagine trying to accuse him when all you had was rumors.

[–] FordBeeblebrox@lemmy.world 6 points 10 hours ago

Its a big deal accusing a powerful person

Terry Crews is a former NFL player and all around “dude I would not want to mess with”

Even still he was hesitant to tell anyone he was abused, what does that tell you about the system

[–] Shacktastic@lemy.lol 5 points 18 hours ago

That's the logic of a witch hunt. I mean, obviously there are behaviors so suspicious you'd feel almost complicit not to report them. But a lot of the times all we have are the subtle impressions built up by our unconscious brain and it's not until the answer is shown that it all clicks into place and what once was hidden is now so obvious.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 50 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Speaking out against the rich and powerful often does not work out well for the person who does it. They would be fighting a very rich and very successful man with a legion of extremely devoted fans. Women who have been direct victims of powerful men have spoken out about it and been destroyed for it (see Anita Hill).

[–] thegreatgarbo@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

Or all the countless women and Harvey Weinstein before the 2017 NY Times piece.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 5 points 1 day ago

Giving off bad vibes isn't a crime.