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Masking is hard - that's why I want to leave a conversation after a while (lemmy.zip)
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This finally occurred to me the other day. NTs can just have a conversation without putting in to much effort but for us it requires concentration. Casual small talk becomes a chore so we get tired off it and try to get out of the conversation. This isn't something NTs can understand since they don't have to put thought into talking and acting "normal."

The possible exception to this is when Autistic people talk about special interests. This creates dopamine in the brain so we basically become high.

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[–] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Me after listening to my brother in law yammer nonstop at family gatherings, interspersed with very exited narration from my nephew about Special Interest X:

I stay as long as I can but everyone gets it at this point. It helps that my nephew got an early diagnosis and folks got a chance to adjust, and shit made a whole lot more sense once I finally got diagnosed last year. Now it's just, "I gotta go get some air." Then suddenly it's an hour later and people are wondering where I went and I say my goodbyes and head home.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

For me it was my uncle acting shocked that none of my cousins knew some really obscure historical figure in US history. He then talked for a hour or two.

[–] vaguerant@fedia.io 5 points 1 week ago

"Jeez dad, nobody cares about this George Washerman or whatever."