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[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world -2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I'm too stupid to know what that's supposed to mean, but I'm sure whatever it means I deserve it.

You're free to tell me to fuck off and die too, it's also what I deserve.

[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world -2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Yes. Seriously.

You're talking to someone who's lesbian daughter is going to end up in a conversion therapy camp because he's too much of a fuckup to take advantage of emigrating to the UK because he was stupid enough to think he could actually save her life.

I mean I don't know why you keep talking to me, but...

Good news though: when that does inevitably happen, you will be free of me forever.

[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Why will that happen? And what has changed so you can't take advantage of moving to the UK?

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world -2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Why do you care? Anyway, I am in the UK already. I'm just fucking it all up like I fuck everything up. And when we run out of money and have to go back to the U.S. and she gets put in a camp, it will be my fault.

And when that happens, be sad for her torture and be happy I won't be around to fuck up the world anymore.

[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Because empathy costs nothing, yet it is so hard to see it be spent.

Because I take no joy of seeing another human being suffer.

Because I want to show, even if only for a brief and fleeting moment, concern for you and your troubles.

Because I want to.

Why is going back the only option? Can't you work there?

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world -1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You need to decide whether you're going to troll me with gifs or if you are going to act like you care. Because it can't be both.

[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Using a gif for a visual cue of my mental state isn't trolling. It's just me lacking words to perfectly express myself.

I'm not going to arm wrestle you to decide if I'm putting up a fake caring facade or if I'm being honest. That is solely up to you.

And to borrow your words: you are free to stop talking to me and be rid of me for ever.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world -2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I didn't say you were free to stop talking me and be rid of me forever. I said when my daughter gets taken away from me, the universe will be rid of me forever.

Should have been rid of me forever before she was even born honestly.

[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

But why will your daughter be taken from you?

Again, isn't it possible for you to stay in the UK indefinetely? Just settle there? Or perhaps on some other european country?

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world -1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's possible for me to stay here indefinitely. She is not a citizen and she would not get citizenship for 10 years. And she can only stay on a family visa if I make more than £29,000 a year, which I won't because no one wants to hire me.

[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

But can't your daughter apply for a work visa herself? Or a school one?

And what are your skills? If my countrymen, dumb as doorknobs go there and find work, it can't be that hard.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world -1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

She's 14, so no work visa. And there's no such thing a grade school visa.

As far as my skills, years of media production and post production, but between chronic health issues and having to put my daughter in online school due to severe bullying, I am 5 years behind the times and, unsurprisingly, no one is interested.

[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

She's too young, obviously. But being so young is she in risk of deportation? Families tend to enjoy a bit more liniency.

You may be a bit outdated but I'm going to risk you are not "unusable". I can't fathom what you actually do but there must be something you can do with those skills.

[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world -1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yes, she is only here on a travel visa. She can stay a maximum of six months until she's here illegally.

And you would think there would be something worth hiring me for, but apparently not.

[–] qyron@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 week ago

Strange laws. Children from immigrant families can enroll to school in my country even while their families are waiting for have their requests processed to become declared immigrants.

Squid, I'm going to be level with you. I risk we're in the same time zone. It's getting late and I've been awake since four a.m.; I'm running on fumes here.

Feel free to message me if you feel like chatting a bit. I spend way too much time here, under the excuse of getting some information in my head.

Keep trying, both for work and for a way to get your daughter to be safe there, here, in Europe, permanently. Please, Squid. From a father to another. We can never give up.