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I never had a social life, either romantic or platonic, and I'm wondering if anyone else has gone from 0 social life to an active one past college. Like I wasted college just going to classes and I graduated already. Thoughts?

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[โ€“] helix@feddit.org 26 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

13 of my 18 friends I found when I was 30-35... My dad made the same experience in his 50s. Friends come and go. It's rather unusual to get to the end of your life with the same friends you had in school.

[โ€“] cmgvd3lw@discuss.tchncs.de 7 points 10 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Soapbox1858@lemm.ee 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

They are obviously ranked too. duh. Number 1 and 2 are always fighting for rank. With 18 friends they only have 2 left in the 20 friend limit. It's very competitive.

[โ€“] ramble81@lemm.ee 2 points 5 hours ago

I mean he needed his MySpace top 8