"You can access all content from the Lemmyverse from any server, so it doesn't matter which you choose" 1. not strictly true and 2. if it doesn't matter why make the choice?

This is a great point. If it doesn't matter, why not randomly assign you to an instance? The reality is that it does because some instances are political, and some federate with other instances that could give a negative impression of Lemmy. By people recommending particular instances to sign up to, shows that there's an element of calculation as to which instance to pick.

Onto your second point, your impact would be negligible. I wouldn't worry about that scenario.

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

I could see a "choose for me" button, kind of like installing an OS where you can go with the automatic stuff or set it up yourself. I think you'd need several instances to get with join-lemmy.org to volunteer to be one of the ones that would sign people up for.

Folks who want to sign up for a specific instance in order to create or maybe moderate a community there almost certainly won't go to join-lemmy.org for that, they'll just go to that instance.

There may need to be a "Hey could we cool it with the fukpolitik' agreement to be on that random sign-up list; I'm not sure I'd drop random folks into ex-Hexbear or whatever.