Men's Liberation
This community is first and foremost a feminist community for men and masc people, but it is also a place to talk about men’s issues with a particular focus on intersectionality.
Rules
Everybody is welcome, but this is primarily a space for men and masc people
Non-masculine perspectives are incredibly important in making sure that the lived experiences of others are present in discussions on masculinity, but please remember that this is a space to discuss issues pertaining to men and masc individuals. Be kind, open-minded, and take care that you aren't talking over men expressing their own lived experiences.
Be productive
Be proactive in forming a productive discussion. Constructive criticism of our community is fine, but if you mainly criticize feminism or other people's efforts to solve gender issues, your post/comment will be removed.
Keep the following guidelines in mind when posting:
- Build upon the OP
- Discuss concepts rather than semantics
- No low effort comments
- No personal attacks
Assume good faith
Do not call other submitters' personal experiences into question.
No bigotry
Slurs, hate speech, and negative stereotyping towards marginalized groups will not be tolerated.
No brigading
Do not participate if you have been linked to this discussion from elsewhere. Similarly, links to elsewhere on the threadiverse must promote constructive discussion of men’s issues.
Recommended Reading
- The Will To Change: Men, Masculinity, And Love by bell hooks
- Politics of Masculinities: Men in Movements by Michael Messner
Related Communities
!feminism@beehaw.org
!askmen@lemmy.world
!mensmentalhealth@lemmy.world
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There's quite a gap between "we need to get rid of white men" and "white men have problems that need to be fixed!" Can't we say the latter without saying the former?
The funny thing when talking about any problem with white people, is that then you have two problems: the original problem, and also white fragility.
We can talk about problems with whiteness and white people without indicting individuals, just as we can talk about problems with masculinity and men without indicting individuals. No one is coming to take your whiteness away or telling you you're a bad person.
Now, can we talk about the problems with white masculinity?
Oh lay off the fragile masculinity/snowflake shit. We have feelings too. I'd like to see your take on an article called "Gay men are STI super spreaders" or "Blacks men end up in prison". These two titles could both accompany thoughtful articles too, because underneath these vulgar headlines are genuine societal issues. I'm disappointed that a mod of this community of all people is telling me to just man up and suck up on the generalized man shaming.
The question is why do you feel targeted. I'm as white as it gets - and I don't feel targeted by the headline, generalised or shamed in any way or form. I get that headlines have to be edgy - that is the game of klick based 24h news circle.
I feel targeted because I'm lumped into the title's generalization. I've read a bit about informal generalizations afterwards and I get now that I don't have to interpret it as such. Such generalizations are not as universally shunned upon as I thought as long as they don't devolve into stereotypes.
As for clickbaity titles, of course it's a thing but they're counter productive so I'd rather call them out.
(I really should let this thread be already.)
But the gay community was the primary community impacted by monkeypox, and I can say that without anger or judgment, for the purpose of fixing that problem in our community and targeting the people most affected by it. And for stopping it in the proper place.
…just like the problems with white masculinity.
I’m suggesting you dismiss your fragility and focus on the problems and improving them.