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Dogs kill 25,000 people annually. How many do housecats kill? It's not a 1-to-1 comparison.
My cat throws herself through the doorway as soon as anyone gets home. She will chew through window screens. She breaks the catio whenever we put it up. If we don't let her out, she will scream non-stop all night. She will fight with the other animals. She will resent us if we don't let her out. When, not if, she does get out, she'll stay away for longer if we haven't been letting her out. She'll disappear for days.
Meanwhile, if I let her out, she will usually sit on the patio or patrol the yard at night. She kills vermin such as voles, moles, and rats. She is territorial about our yard such that she has managed to push the colony of feral cats out of my yard. She gets regular checkups along with flea and tick treatment. She is 14 and happier than she's ever been. I'm going to let her live her best life.
I don't see what that has to do with anything. I'm not saying dogs should be allowed to roam free while cats are kept inside. I'm saying they BOTH shouldn't be allowed to wander freely. Dogs being a danger to humans is just another reason why. I'm just listing some of the reasons why cats also shouldn't be allowed to free roam. Danger to humans isn't the only reason to keep an animal indoors or in an enclosure unless on a leash or supervised.
Dogs also become destructive when kept inside without being exercised or entertained. Dog owners are expected to provide those things instead of just letting their dogs roam loose around the neighbourhood to entertain themselves. Your cat isn't some super special exception among cats who never kills any native animals that aren't pests. You can cat-proof your yard to provide a safe outdoor space for her, or leash train her and take her on regular walks to drain her energy and satisfy her desire to roam, or make her an enclosure that she can stay in outside without being given complete unsupervised freedom, but of course those solutions would all take actual effort. So it's up to you to decide, would you rather put in the effort to provide an appropriate environment for your pet, including enrichment and training and exercise, like dog owners are expected to do? Or would you rather shrug and toss your cat outside to contend with cars, coyotes, and all manner of toxic plants and chemicals and diseases and parasites, and allow her to continue to contribute to the destruction of the local ecosystem?
Because it's not really about what makes your cat happy, that's just the easiest excuse to convince yourself that you don't have to change things. After all, if you did your due diligence she could be both happy and safe, and living her best life without having to be let outside unsupervised. What it's really about is whether you're willing to put in the work to make that happen as a responsible pet owner.
Dogs can't because they present a danger to humans. That's the clear difference.
I'm not just being difficult. My wife was a trainer at the human society for years. We know the stuff and have tried to do it. I value my cat more then wild birds and rodents, and my wife does taxidermy for whatever she brings back.
My cat broke her first harness, slipped out of her second, and now she flails whenever we try to come near her with a harness. We've tried walking, but she refuses to move. You don't know my cat, and you don't seem to realize that this won't make her happy.
Local ecosystem destruction is a moot argument because we had multiple feral cats in our yard every night when we moved in, and now we have none. We have fewer cats total in our yard.
At the end of the day, she's 14 and will start slowing down soon. If she dies, she lived a great life. My last outdoor cat was 20 years old. I get long living cats who are happy by just letting them be cats.