Off My Chest
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1. The "good" part of our community means we are pro-empathy and anti-harassment. However, we don't intend to make this a "safe space" where everyone has to be a saint. Sh*t happens, and life is messy. That's why we get things off our chests.
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People can be different with different people. One of my buddies from high school was pretty fun and I counted him as one of my friends but he did not really date much. Later when he started having relationships with women he treated them so awful I dialed down my time hanging with him (was not to hard as we were getting older and busier anyway). So like I sorta could not tell how much a jerk he was until I saw him with the right folks. In our group he was nice to everyone. I mean this may not be the case with your thing but just want to point out someone can meet someone and not know them and even have a good impression.