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I agree with and can relate to a lot of what you said there. On the flip side, it's tempting to abandon relationships early on because of disagreements or differences that a lot of long-term couples actually just learn to negotiate and respect. Often those differences are actually part of what makes the relationship so special and strong over time. Dating is so easy now that it makes it very easy to just cycle through these short, shallow relationships and never learn anything about yourself or others because you're too fixated on finding that fairy tale relationship.
Sure. I'm saying struggle love isn't love, it's trauma bonding.