SEE SECOND EDIT DOWN BELOW
Lets not beat around the bush here, lots of people like to look at boobs and dicks.
Lemmynsfw was looking like a good place to go, but reading the "Loli" announcement thread where they equate drawn child porn to petite women, its clear the owner is not the right person to be hosting a NSFW instance for the majority of people.
Is there anywhere else that people can recommend?
There is undoubtably a need for such an instance. Can we discuss this like adults?
edit: UPDATE
Take this update as you will
I'm taking it as a backtrack, but it's still not an instance I want to associate with.
Lots of people keen to offer their opinion of drawn picture of naked kids, haven't seen any alternatives though
Edit 2: At this point I think their updated rules are good. It took a bit to get there, but in the end they appear to be taking a hard stance. Hopefully this is enforced.
I dont think it was a case of "whoops bad English" like they are suggesting, I think it was a total 180 backflip. This doesnt really instill confidence in the admins IMO, but im happy that they have made the right decision in regards to allowed content. Hopefully this is was just some early wobblies and the community can move on.
In that case a simple 'What are the best NSFW instances?' would have sufficed perhaps with a line stating that you don't enjoy hentai / loli. You cared about the nuance when you called it child porn despite knowing the actual genre is 'loli'.
Big difference between something not being your cup of tea and full blown child porn accusations. I might not enjoy someone sending me an eggplant emoji but I wouldn't call the police and say I've just been harassed by a drawn picture of a purple cock.
Hope you find an instance to your tastes and I hope you can get your questions answered in future without feeling the need to incite a mob.
No, I'm warning people who don't want to see pictures of naked kids that the instance is cool with that content.
Hentai isn't the issue. The issue is
Most people don't want that. If you do, more power to ya bud
Nice straw man. Hope you can find the actual IRL underage content you're looking for rather than just drawings. See how that works?
Where is the straw man?
Warning people who dont want underage content on their feed?
Directly quoting the announcement title?
Saying most people dont want that content but if you do good for you?
Literally none of those are strawmen
Well... we're talking about some manga drawings which might just look like Funko pops with breasts to some but you decided to instead say that we're irrefutably talking about 'pictures of naked kids', a massive oversimplification which makes your argument look stronger.
'if you do then more power to ya bud' to make it sound like I enjoy that content despite the fact that I've already said that it does nothing for me. A misrepresentation of my position.
That's what makes it a straw man argument in my opinion.
Anyway thanks for the debate, I haven't followed on with what happened in the rest of the thread and really regret engaging with it in the first place. Sorry if I offended you, it's hard to get points across via text sometimes and I probably came off a bit strong.
None of this really affects me as I don't use Lemmy for NSFW content, I like the platform though and don't want to believe that it would be used for underage content so I guess we pretty much agree where it counts but came at it from different angles.
Peace and love
Yea look, I got a bit heated about it and I sincerely apologise for that.
Im glad I brought it up though, enough people have been pissed off about the decision that they seem to have taken a hard 180 on the topic, so alls well that ends well for the time being.
And yea I agree there are always different angles, and with so many people moving to a new platform for different reasons there is always going to be some butting heads.
Im just worried that the fediverse is going to take a turn and be overun by edgelords like what has happened with so many "reddit alternatives" in the past.
Anyway, peace and love for sure my dude/dudette