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submitted 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) by blackwitch@lemmings.world to c/ftm@lemmy.blahaj.zone

What should I do? On my male days, I get misgendered intentionally and called "my girl/daughter" by my transphobic dad who says "people think boys can be girls and I hate it!!"

He also keeps calling my male friend a "she" when he doesn't even look like a girl, he looks pretty gender-neutral/masc and just may look feminine to him because he's pre-T (he's only 16).

I thought of one thing, and last time he said I couldn't hang out with him because he was trans but didn't have a face to match up with the name or me just saying "a friend" so he may let me hang out with him, thinking he's "a girl" and just a tomboy so I can finally sleep over.

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[-] Redacted@lemmy.zip 11 points 8 months ago

All you can do is remember the rage, and when you finally get out sunder him from your life. Burn the bridge and be free.

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