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[-] blinfabian@feddit.nl 0 points 8 months ago
[-] ebolapie@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago

Even if you like it, if you didn't give prior consent you need to leave.

[-] blinfabian@feddit.nl -4 points 8 months ago

but what if i like it anyway tho 🥺

[-] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 7 points 8 months ago

then you need therapy

[-] ebolapie@lemmy.world 6 points 8 months ago

Then you take what you learned and you still walk away and you find someone who will do it safely. Or you stay in the relationship, flash forward several years, and wonder why you're miserable

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Just because you like it in consensual play doesn't mean you'll like it in abusive situations. And even if you do find yourself enjoying the abuse, it's still better to walk away. Abusers have a way of making you into someone you hate and they often escalate things. Then therapy might help you unpack it, because you really don't want to find yourself preferring an abusive partner

this post was submitted on 09 Jan 2026
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