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Trust your gut?
I will when I decipher exactly what it is telling me
Openly put the physical stuff on pause to gauge their reaction
If you can tell when you’re with the person the feeling isn’t early days nervousness (3rd meet us still early) and your gut is still feeling uneasy, it might be a telling thing, saying that maybe this person isn’t the person for you. And maybe it’s best to end things now?
I feel like it's still pretty early days right now, and I'm thinking it's just me being hypervigilant after stuff going wrong in the past.
I think time will tell.