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I joined reddit on the tailwind, so it was all echo chamber, we hate newcomers, gatekeeping, automod frenzy, too many rulebreakers, too many rules, etc I could be wrong, but thats what I imagine it used to be like.

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[–] cubedsteaks@lemmy.today 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And suggested another phrase that might express what you really mean better if you want to avoid having that reaction/assumption

No, you recognized there could be nuance in words and chose to nitpick anyway.

I never attacked you

Maybe you just don't realize how condescending you came off as.

It was conversation until you condescended to me.

[–] asteriskeverything@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

No, I really thought you were having trouble understanding what I was saying. Trying repeatedly to explain it in different ways is not being condescending when I really believe you didn't get it and needed more clarification.

Whatever you wanna believe though at this point I guess. I'm done. I don't like you and I think it's safe to say you don't like me.

[–] cubedsteaks@lemmy.today 1 points 1 year ago

Nah. You mentioned specifically what the different nuances for "I don't care about politics" but you chose to take me literally anyway.