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What's a skill that's taken for granted where you live, but is often missing in people moving there from abroad? (kyu.de)

submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by aard@kyu.de to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I was thinking about that when I was dropping my 6 year old off at some hobbies earlier - it's pretty much expected to have learned how to ride a bicycle before starting school, and it massively expands the area you can go to by yourself. When she went to school by bicycle she can easily make a detour via a shop to spend some pocket money before coming home, while by foot that'd be rather time consuming.

Quite a lot of friends from outside of Europe either can't ride a bicycle, or were learning it as adult after moving here, though.

edit: the high number of replies mentioning "swimming" made me realize that I had that filed as a basic skill pretty much everybody has - probably due to swimming lessons being a mandatory part of school education here.

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[–] funkajunk@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

People are deathly afraid of kidnappers and drug dealers getting to their children, when in reality crime rates are the lowest they've ever been.

[–] fubo@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

For the record, nobody ever offered me free drugs till I was in my 40s.

[–] kamenlady@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

It all depends on the type of person. You'll see if somebody would possibly be inclined to use drugs and become a potential client.

People stopped asking me if i sell drugs, around the time i turned 30.

[–] paysrenttobirds@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 year ago

Past two decades, my husband gets these offers any time his hair grows to chin length. But, yeah, not as a kid.

[–] hglman@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 year ago

I'm afraid of cars, that's it. It's a self-perpetuation circle.