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Am I the only one who deeply dislikes the phrase "on the spectrum" and the way NTs misuse it? In my experience, most NTs seem to think it means the person being described as some kind of light or partial autism. When it fact "on the spectrum" means exactly the same this clinically as "has autism."
Is it just me? Am I missing something?
Lol they take it as degree of disability rather than spectrum of differences because they can't comprehend that anything other than the NT way of being exists.
I sometimes ask "and where are you on the ableism spectrum?" if I'm annoyed by someone enough
That response rules, I'm def going to use it in the future 🫡
I didn’t read the thing, and also don’t entirely disagree with you.. but as someone who struggles quite a bit but knows a lot of people who struggle more… I think it’s a reasonable term that helps promote understanding
My experience ia that it promotes misunderstanding. What am I not seeing that you are?
That’s the thing though. It’s ableism telling you that some struggle “more” when, in fact, we all struggle differently on the spectrum. Spectrum of presentations/expressions, not difficulties.