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[–] bitjunkie@lemmy.world 8 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

They were molested.

[–] duckwingthegoose@lemmy.world 5 points 4 weeks ago

As a spouse of someone this happened to, this is exactly what

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

so every woman i have slept with was molested? that's like 40+ women. the stat is 1 in 5 or so, so only about 10 of them statistically would have been.

I highly doubt that. More likely they just lack emotional control and blurt out whatever thoughts are in their head post-coitus, regardless of how inappropriate or weird they might be.

I too experience feelings after sex. I just don't project them all over the person I just had sex with, I have the decency to keep them to myself. I'm not going to tell a woman I just had sex with how much she reminds me of my ex, because I understand how weird and awful that is and I would not want it done to me, so I don't do it to them.

They don't seem to have this filter. And it feels gross and I hate it. But that makes me an asshole, because double-standards and sexism. If I did that to her, you can 100% guarantee she'd be offended and disgusted. How creepy and weird would it be for me to start talking about my mom or something after sex? And yet she's going on about her daddy and how he took care of her when she was 5. Shit's weird as fuck.