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I have a few acquaintances that have developed quite a funk. I'm afraid to ask if they think they don't reek or if they have reasons that are more important to them.

I know there's research that supports bathing much less than once per day but this is different. Obviously none in months or years. Lemmers that don't ever shower or bathe, what's your reasoning? Thanks for your insight!

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[โ€“] helix@feddit.org 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Did you tell them? What did they say?

Can you describe the smell? If it's cheesy they might have a yeast infection, for example.

[โ€“] ContactClosure@lemmus.org 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I am extremely conflict avoidant, hence the Lemmy thread haha. Not cheesy, just smells like old BO. Real old. Gym shorts that were re-worn a few times then left in a duffle bag in a hot car for a week. Times 2. A ~6ft radius outdoors.

[โ€“] helix@feddit.org 2 points 3 weeks ago

Eww. That sounds like they don't wash their clothes either.